I was like you. I thought trying harder was the answer.

The problem was
never that you
did not tryhard enough.

See what’s blocking your relationship, business, or life—and get one clear step to change it.
Matched against 195,000 data points & 1,080 profiles. Manually reviewed by me. Delivered within 24 hours…
Once you see your pattern, things start to change fast.
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You’ve tried everything.
You’re still doingthe same thing.

You keep getting mad at your spouse, thinking it’s going to be different.
You feel trapped in your 9-to-5, wishing there was more.
You want to be part of something bigger and experience life fully.
You need people to hear what you’ve got to say.
You feel exhausted managing everyone’s feelings, wishing you got some credit.
You’ve got potential. You want to move forward, but it feels like you’ll never get there.
Your spouse doesn’t understand why.
This isn’t a willpower problem.
It’s a pattern problem — and yours is specific.
Two weeks in, my daughter slammed her door after dinner. The old me follows her up and turns it into an hour-long thing. I heard François’s line in my head — ‘that’s her pattern meeting yours’ — made tea instead, and she came down twenty minutes later and actually talked to me. That’s when I knew this wasn’t another course.
Tomás R.Father of two · Toronto
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I’ll be honest — a quiz telling me why nothing worked sounded like exactly the kind of thing that never worked. I took it to prove it wrong. It named the loop I’ve been running since my twenties in one paragraph. I sat there for a while.
Priya S.Engineer · Austin
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Mate. Just used the anchor thing in the middle of a board meeting. It worked. This is ridiculous 😂
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Why it takes24 hours

In this day and age of having everything done by AI and getting it instantaneously, I want to make sure we get it right.
195,000data points
Your answers are matched against 195,000 data points. Then I personally vet the analysis to make sure it fits you and what you’re dealing with right now.
From there, I create one custom action step for you and your current situation.
That’s why it takes 24 hours.

Once you see
your pattern,you can change it.

Not with more willpower. Not with better habits. With the right moves, for how you’re actually wired.
Most people spend years trying general fixes for a specific problem. The specific problem never gets named. So it keeps running.
01
Know exactly
what’s keeping you stuck
02
Stop running the
same pattern without knowing it
03
Make moves that
actually work for you
04
Feel more like yourself —
at work, in relationships, everywhere

One move.
Your choice how far.

You do not have to turn this into a giant self-improvement project. Start with the first clear read. Go deeper only if you want help using it.
Founding cohort

The ME Lab — $2500

Bring the decision you keep reopening. We work on what you do next.
  • Work through it with people who get it
  • Apply it to the real situations in front of you
  • Build moves that fit you instead of fighting you
One short note first. No commitment.
Founding rate

Buddy System — $500

Bring the situation you keep replaying. I reply by email with what I see and what to try next.
  • 14 days of direct email coaching
  • Get direct replies from Francois by email
  • Lifetime access to the supporting resource portal
One active situation. No weekly call. You keep the replies.
The First Read is the clean first step: see the pattern before you try to fix it.

Stop trying advice
built for someone else.

Take the questionnaire. Get your First Read. Try the first move that actually fits.
Free · about 3 minutes · no call · delivered within 24 hours